The Secrets of Unreasonable Hospitality

6 Lessons • 25m • Will Guidara

The Secrets of Unreasonable Hospitality

Engaging in "unreasonable hospitality," as defined by restaurateur Will Guidara, can be your strongest competitive advantage in sales by making customers feel valued, and it can be creatively and systematically implemented without being exhausting.
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The Secrets of Unreasonable Hospitality

In a video lesson, restaurateur Will Guidara emphasizes that prioritizing relationships alongside products and empowering employees to make customers feel valued can give businesses a significant competitive edge in the hospitality industry.

The Secrets of Unreasonable Hospitality

Make People Feel Seen

Restauranteur Will Guidara emphasizes the importance of "one size fits one" hospitality, encouraging businesses to embrace individual uniqueness by creating tailored experiences that foster meaningful relationships and elevate customer satisfaction through intentional service.

Make People Feel Seen

Four Steps for Personalizing Experiences at Scale

Theme parks like Disneyworld enhance guest experiences through pattern recognition and creative responses, such as personalizing interactions with buttons and alleviating wait times with entertainment, as explained by restaurateur Will Guidara in his video lesson on tailored hospitality.

Four Steps for Personalizing Experiences at Scale

Find the Perfect Blend Between Control and Collaboration

Effective parenting and workplace management require balancing strict boundaries with flexibility, empowering staff to personalize customer experiences while maintaining financial discipline, as exemplified by Will Guidara's approach of tightly managing 95% of the budget to allow for meaningful connections with the remaining 5%.

Find the Perfect Blend Between Control and Collaboration

Study a Worthy Rival

Leadership expert Simon Sinek emphasizes that worthy rivals inspire improvement through process-focused competition, a principle restaurateur Will Guidara applied at Eleven Madison Park, encouraging professionals to learn from competitors to foster innovation and enhance their own offerings.

Study a Worthy Rival

Don’t Just Stay in the Game – Win It

In a video lesson, restaurateur Will Guidara emphasizes that both defensive and offensive strategies are crucial for business success, advocating for small, impactful cuts during tough times and encouraging team creativity to drive innovation and revenue growth.

Don’t Just Stay in the Game – Win It

If your job involves selling something for a living, you already know the importance of making customers feel listened to and cared for. So why up the ante and engage in what restaurateur Will Guidara calls “unreasonable hospitality”? Because being relentless in making others feel valued might be your best competitive advantage – especially in a business landscape stuffed with competitors constantly offering the latest and greatest version of your product or service. Luckily, being “unreasonable” doesn’t have to be draining; it can be creative, generative, and even systematizable.

Learning Objectives

  • Prioritize presence and connection in service interactions.
  • Scale personal touches by recognizing common customer patterns.
  • Empower your team to spark joy.
  • Be inspired by your rivals.
  • Balance exceptional customer service with profitability.